When most people hear swinger travel, they probably picture a lifestyle resort, adults-only takeover, swinger cruise, or trip specifically planned around the lifestyle.
Those can all be incredible experiences.
But what about the other trips?
What about the weekend in Nashville? The anniversary trip to Hawaii? A few days near Yellowstone? A business trip with an extra night available? A beach vacation, road trip, family visit, or European adventure?

Your vacation doesn’t have to be planned around the lifestyle to make the lifestyle part of your vacation.
That’s one of the ideas behind SwingHavenBnB—and one that sometimes takes people a few minutes to fully understand.
The Problem With Traditional Swinger Travel
For years, swinger travel has largely centered around specific destinations and events.
Want a lifestyle vacation? Find a resort.
Want to meet other couples? Book a cruise, attend a takeover, visit a club, or search profiles on a lifestyle dating site hoping to find someone who happens to be nearby.
But most of us don’t choose every vacation based upon where the nearest lifestyle resort happens to be.
We travel because:
- We want to see Hawaii.
- Explore Nashville.
- Visit Yellowstone.
- Spend a weekend in New Orleans.
- Escape somewhere quiet.
- Visit friends or family.
- Or simply discover someplace we’ve never been.
- So we started asking a different question:
What if lifestyle travelers could choose where they actually wanted to go first—and then discover the lifestyle possibilities around that trip?
That’s where SwingHavenBnB comes in.
There are two sides to the SwingHavenBnB community, and these maps tell the story surprisingly well.

SwingHavenBnB property listings give verified members lifestyle-friendly places to stay in destinations across the United States and beyond.
These are places where SwingHaven members are opening their properties, guest spaces and accommodations to other verified lifestyle travelers.
But that’s only half of the idea.

SwingHavenBnB Travel Requests show where members are planning to travel and hoping to connect with other verified lifestyle members.
Look at the difference.
Our members aren’t only traveling where SwingHaven currently has properties.
They’re going everywhere.
And that’s exactly why we created Travel Requests.
Already Planning a Trip? Tell the Community Where You’re Going
Let’s say you’re heading to Nashville for a long weekend.
You already have a hotel.
You don’t necessarily need somewhere to stay.
But wouldn’t it be nice to know another verified lifestyle couple lives nearby and would enjoy meeting for drinks?
Create a Travel Request.
Maybe you’re going to Hawaii and would prefer staying with lifestyle-friendly hosts rather than checking into another anonymous hotel.
Create a Travel Request.
Perhaps you’re heading to Europe, California, Florida or someplace completely off the traditional lifestyle-travel map.
Create a Travel Request and let the community know:
We’re coming. Who’s around?
That connection could lead to:
- A private place to stay.
- It could lead to dinner.
- Drinks.
- Local recommendations.
- A tour from people who actually know the area.
- A new friendship.
And yes—sometimes there may be chemistry and something more.
But that’s never the expectation.
The first connection is simply between verified lifestyle people who might never have found one another otherwise.
Have a Place? You Can Be Part of the Other Side
SwingHaven isn’t only for travelers.
- Maybe you have a vacation rental.
- A guesthouse.
- A casita.
- A cabin.
- An extra bedroom.
- A second home that sits empty part of the year.
Or perhaps you don’t have accommodations at all, but enjoy meeting other lifestyle couples when they’re visiting your area.
That’s another piece of the community.
Imagine seeing that another verified couple is traveling to your hometown next month.
You could send them a message:
“We live about 20 minutes away. If you’re interested, we’d be happy to meet you for drinks and give you some recommendations while you’re here.”
No pressure.
No expectations.
Just an opportunity that probably wouldn’t have existed otherwise.
Swinger Travel Doesn’t Have to Start With a Resort
We love lifestyle resorts, cruises, clubs and events. They serve an important purpose and can create some amazing experiences.
SwingHaven isn’t trying to replace them.
We’re trying to fill the enormous space between them.
The world is much bigger than the destinations traditionally associated with the lifestyle.
And lifestyle couples are already traveling throughout it.
That’s why we believe the future of swinger travel isn’t simply about finding more swinger destinations.
It’s about making more destinations lifestyle-friendly.
A Different Kind of Lifestyle Travel Community
SwingHavenBnB is built around verified members.
Members can use the community to:
- Find lifestyle-friendly private accommodations.
- Post Travel Requests for upcoming trips.
- Connect with verified members at their destination.
- Offer a vacation property, guesthouse, spare room or other accommodation.
- Meet travelers coming through their area.
- Share local recommendations and experiences.
- Turn an ordinary vacation into an opportunity to make new lifestyle connections.
You don’t need to own a property to participate.
You don’t need to be looking for a place to stay.
And you certainly don’t need to promise anything beyond saying hello.
You just need to be open to the possibility of meeting the right people in the right place at the right time.
Your Next Lifestyle Adventure May Already Be Planned
Maybe you’ve already booked your next vacation.
Perfect.
You don’t need to change where you’re going.
Tell the community where you’re headed and see who’s there.
Or browse the growing collection of lifestyle-friendly places offered by verified members and discover somewhere completely new.
Because sometimes the most memorable part of a trip isn’t where you stayed.
It’s who you met along the way.
Ready to See Where SwingHavenBnB Can Take You?
Become a Verified Member today
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