SwingHavenBnB is a private, verified lifestyle travel community connecting lifestyle-friendly travelers with welcoming hosts and unique places to stay.

Verified members can browse member-submitted properties, create Travel Requests, communicate with hosts and discover travel opportunities that may not be available through traditional vacation-rental platforms.

The community is about more than finding a bed for the night. It gives compatible adults a way to make new connections, share recommendations and travel with greater comfort and confidence.

Many people find SwingHavenBnB while searching for an Airbnb for swingers. That phrase describes the need fairly well, but SwingHavenBnB is an independent community and is not affiliated with Airbnb.

Traditional rental websites primarily help the public book accommodations. SwingHavenBnB focuses on verified, lifestyle-friendly members, private lifestyle-friendly listings, welcoming hosts and Travel Requests.

SwingHavenBnB can complement traditional travel websites by helping members find accommodations and connections those public platforms were not designed to provide.

SwingHavenBnB is designed primarily for adults who participate in or are genuinely comfortable with the consensual lifestyle.

Members have different interests, boundaries and travel goals. Some enjoy meeting like-minded couples for drinks, dinner or local recommendations. Others are interested in private accommodations, social connections or the possibility of additional chemistry.

No particular interaction is expected. Clear communication, mutual consent and respect for personal boundaries remain essential.

Adult lifestyle-friendly travelers and hosts may apply to join. Members must complete the applicable registration, membership and verification requirements before receiving full access to protected community features.

SwingHavenBnB is not designed as an open public directory. Verification helps maintain a more accountable community for people sharing travel plans, profiles and accommodations.

Verified members may be able to:

• Browse lifestyle-friendly property listings.
• View Travel Requests from other members.
• Contact hosts or respond to requests.
• Create their own property listing.
• Submit Travel Requests for upcoming trips.
• Connect with other verified travelers and hosts.

Visit our How It Works page for a step-by-step overview.

No. SwingHavenBnB is centered on travel, accommodations, hosting and lifestyle-friendly connections.

Members may naturally form friendships or discover mutual chemistry, but no social or intimate interaction is promised or required. Travelers and hosts should communicate openly and never assume that accommodations include anything beyond what has been clearly discussed.

Lifestyle travel refers to vacations, road trips, cruises, resort stays and other journeys planned by people who participate in or are accepting of the consensual adult lifestyle.

A lifestyle trip may include meeting local couples, visiting a lifestyle resort, attending an event or simply staying with a welcoming host who understands the community.

The phrase does not imply that anything has to happen during the trip. Many lifestyle travelers value friendship, conversation, recommendations and the comfort of being around like-minded adults.

Swinger travel generally describes travel planned by lifestyle couples or adults who hope to visit lifestyle-friendly places, attend events or meet compatible people while away from home.

It may involve a weekend getaway, an international vacation, a resort visit, a cruise, an RV trip or a stay with another verified member.

Lifestyle travelers often use public hotels and vacation rentals, but those options do not indicate whether a host or property is lifestyle-friendly.

SwingHavenBnB gives verified members another option. Members can search private lifestyle-friendly listings or create a Travel Request describing where they want to go.

A Travel Request can reach members who may be willing to host even though they have not yet created a permanent property listing.

A lifestyle travel community connects compatible adults who enjoy traveling, hosting and meeting other lifestyle-friendly people.

Unlike a public booking marketplace, a verified community can combine accommodations with member profiles, private communication, Travel Requests and opportunities to build genuine connections.

A vacation is lifestyle-friendly when travelers can feel comfortable being themselves around hosts, accommodations or destinations that understand and respect consensual adult lifestyles.

This might mean staying with another lifestyle couple, attending a takeover, visiting a clothing-optional resort or simply choosing accommodations where discretion and open communication are valued.

No. Many lifestyle vacations focus on relaxation, travel, friendship and new experiences.

Members may meet for dinner, enjoy a pool or hot tub, visit local attractions or exchange travel recommendations. Any additional interaction depends entirely on mutual interest, communication and consent.

Lifestyle couples travel everywhere—from nearby weekend destinations to beaches, mountain towns, major cities, clothing-optional resorts, international islands, cruises and RV destinations.

SwingHavenBnB is not limited to traditional lifestyle resort areas. A welcoming guest room, vacation home or RV site can create a lifestyle-friendly travel opportunity almost anywhere.

A Travel Request is a member-created post explaining where someone wants to travel, their approximate dates, desired accommodations and other useful details.

Instead of waiting for the perfect listing to appear, travelers can proactively share their plans with verified community members.

Visit the Travel Requests page to view current requests or create your own.

A Travel Request can uncover opportunities that are not currently advertised. A member near your destination may have a guest room, second home, RV site or local connection but may not have created a permanent listing.

Requests can also help you meet local members, receive destination suggestions and inspire someone to become a host.

A helpful Travel Request generally includes:

• Your destination or general travel area.
• Approximate arrival and departure dates.
• Your preferred budget or price range.
• The number of travelers.
• The type of accommodation you need.
• Any important accessibility or amenity needs.
• A friendly introduction about your travel plans.

Avoid sharing sensitive information publicly. Specific addresses and personal details can be discussed privately after making a suitable connection.

Yes. Travel Requests can be submitted for destinations in the United States or internationally.

Even if SwingHavenBnB does not currently have a property listing in that location, a member may live nearby, know a suitable host or be inspired to offer accommodations.

Yes. Members planning different trips may create separate requests for each destination or date range.

Keeping unrelated trips in separate requests makes it easier for potential hosts to understand and respond to the correct travel opportunity.

Verified members may respond when they believe they can help with your request. A response might include an accommodation offer, local recommendations or a suggestion from someone who lives near your destination.

Receiving a response does not obligate either party to move forward. Both sides should communicate and decide whether the arrangement feels appropriate.

Yes. Clearly state whether you are looking for an entire property, private guest suite, bedroom, RV site or another type of accommodation.

Including your preferences helps prevent confusion and makes it easier for suitable hosts to identify your request.

Travel Requests are primarily intended to support travel and accommodation needs, but they can also create introductions to members who live near your destination.

A request should remain travel-focused. Any social plans should develop naturally through respectful private communication.

Yes. You may create a request for accommodations near a lifestyle event, resort, convention, cruise port or other destination.

Include the general location and dates, but avoid copying copyrighted event descriptions or implying that SwingHavenBnB is officially affiliated with the event unless such a relationship exists.

Members can generally manage their active requests through their account and listing area. Editing may be temporarily unavailable while a new or updated request is awaiting administrative review.

Once your plans change or accommodations are secured, update or remove the request so other members know it is no longer active.

Swinger vacation rentals are guest rooms, homes, suites, cabins, cottages or other accommodations offered by people who are comfortable hosting verified lifestyle-friendly travelers.

The term describes the host or community environment. It does not imply that any particular social or intimate interaction is included with the stay.

Lifestyle-friendly accommodations are places where verified lifestyle travelers can stay with the understanding that the host is accepting of the community.

Accommodations may range from a simple private bedroom to an entire vacation property with amenities such as a pool, hot tub, patio, entertainment space or clothing-optional area.

Yes, when an available host offers an entire property. Each listing should explain whether the accommodation is a whole home, shared residence, guest suite, bedroom or other type of space.

Review available lifestyle-friendly listings carefully and ask the host questions before submitting a booking request.

Yes. A host does not need to own a separate vacation rental to participate. Many meaningful hosting opportunities begin with a clean, comfortable guest bedroom or private suite.

The listing should clearly explain which spaces are private, which are shared and whether the host will be present during the stay.

Some hosts may offer clothing-optional pools, patios, hot tubs or private outdoor spaces. Availability depends on the individual property and host rules.

Never assume that a property is clothing-optional unless the listing or host clearly confirms it.

Some listings may include an adult-themed room or private entertainment space. Other listings are traditional guest accommodations offered by lifestyle-friendly hosts.

Review each listing description for specific amenities and communicate with the host about applicable rules, availability and expectations.

Some properties can accommodate multiple couples, while others are limited to two guests. Maximum occupancy is determined by the host, available space, local rules and the property listing.

Always disclose the complete number of guests before booking. Additional visitors should never be brought to a property without the host’s approval.

Verified lifestyle-friendly members with a suitable space may create a hosting listing, subject to SwingHavenBnB requirements and any laws, leases, association rules or insurance restrictions that apply to their property.

A potential host might offer an entire vacation home, private suite, guest bedroom, cabin, RV space or another appropriate accommodation.

No. Members may be able to host using a spare bedroom, private basement, detached guesthouse, pool house, vacation property, RV or other comfortable space. Learn more about the process on the How It Works page.

The most important requirement is providing an honest, accurate description so travelers understand what is being offered.

Yes. Hosts control their availability and do not need to offer accommodations continuously.

You might host only on selected weekends, during a local event, while a second home is vacant or when your schedule allows. Keep your listing calendar and description updated.

Yes. A booking request is not automatically accepted. Hosts can review the request, communicate with the traveler and decide whether the stay feels like an appropriate match.

Decisions must still comply with applicable laws and platform policies.

Yes. Hosts may decline when dates are unavailable, the property is not suitable, communication is incomplete or the request does not meet clearly stated listing requirements.

A brief, respectful response helps travelers understand that the request has been reviewed.

Hosts establish their accommodation pricing, minimum stays, cleaning charges and other listing details within available platform settings.

Pricing should be clear and should accurately reflect what is included. Hosts are also responsible for understanding any applicable tax, licensing or regulatory obligations.

Hosts can manage their listing through their member account. Listings should be updated whenever availability, pricing, amenities or property information changes.

Temporarily expiring or pausing an unavailable property is better than leaving travelers with outdated information.

No. Hosting provides accommodations. It does not create an obligation or promise of social, romantic or intimate interaction.

Hosts and guests should discuss expectations respectfully and understand that consent can never be assumed from a listing, profile, booking or prior conversation.

Member verification helps confirm that community members are who they represent themselves to be. This creates greater accountability when people share profiles, travel plans and accommodations.

Verification does not guarantee anyone’s personality, behavior, intentions or suitability. Members must still use good judgment and communicate carefully.

Verification is intended to confirm identity by comparing the person in submitted or approved profile images with verification information.

It is not a character reference, criminal background check, health screening or guarantee of personal compatibility.

Verification may be completed using a G-rated profile photo together with an approved identity-verification method. Alternative options may include an established certified profile on certain lifestyle websites with suitable face photos.

Follow the current instructions on the Verification page or contact SwingHavenBnB when you need assistance.

An established or certified profile on Kasidie, SLS, SDC or FetLife may help with verification when it contains clear, appropriate face photos that can be compared with your SwingHavenBnB profile.

You may need to provide profile access, such as a backstage pass, when face photos are not publicly visible. Verification approval is handled individually.

Identification images are used only for the verification review and are deleted after the review is completed in accordance with SwingHavenBnB’s current verification process.

Do not submit sensitive identification through public profile areas or listing descriptions. Follow the private submission instructions provided during verification.

No. Identity verification should not be confused with a criminal, financial or comprehensive background check.

SwingHavenBnB cannot guarantee that a verified member is a good match or will behave appropriately. Travelers and hosts should communicate, review available information and take ordinary safety precautions.

Protected property listings and Travel Requests are intended for verified community members rather than the general public.

Public visitors may see general information explaining how SwingHavenBnB works, but access to private member content is restricted.

Private listings and Travel Requests are protected from ordinary public browsing. Public search engines may index public informational pages, such as blogs and guides, but should not be used as a way to browse protected member content.

Exact property addresses should not be displayed openly to the general public. Listings may show an approximate city, state, region or map area so verified travelers can identify the destination.

Specific arrival information should be shared privately at the appropriate stage of an approved booking.

Members may use an appropriate display name or username within the community. Verification still requires SwingHavenBnB to confirm the identity behind the account.

Avoid placing private contact details, full legal names or sensitive information in public-facing profile fields.

Private contact details should not be displayed as part of a public listing. Members should use the available platform communication tools and share additional contact information only when they are comfortable doing so.

Use an approximate public location, communicate through the platform, disclose the exact address only after approval and avoid posting identifying documents or unnecessary personal details.

Hosts may also establish written house rules covering photography, visitors, social media, private areas and arrival instructions.

A traveler reviews an available listing and submits a booking request. The host can review the request, communicate with the traveler and approve or decline it.

When a request is approved, the traveler follows the applicable payment and confirmation process. Review the listing’s pricing, dates, house rules and cancellation terms before completing payment.

No. A booking request must be reviewed and accepted by the host. Dates may be unavailable, or the property may not be suitable for a particular request.

Do not make nonrefundable travel arrangements based solely on a pending request.

Discuss dates, occupancy, sleeping arrangements, shared spaces, pets, smoking, accessibility, amenities, arrival details and house rules.

Lifestyle-related expectations should also be communicated respectfully. Neither side should assume that socializing or play is included with accommodations.

A declined request simply means that particular arrangement is not available or is not the right match. You may search for another listing or create a Travel Request for the same destination.

Only guests included in and approved through the booking arrangement should enter or stay at the property.

Ask the host before inviting anyone else, even for a short visit. Undisclosed visitors may violate house rules, occupancy limits or local regulations.

Membership supports platform operation, member verification, protected community features and continued development.

Requiring registration and verification also helps prevent private listings and Travel Requests from becoming an open public directory.

Founding Access is an introductory membership option that gives eligible members time to complete verification, explore the community and contribute a qualifying property listing or Travel Request.

Current pricing, eligibility and promotional terms can change. Review the current options on the Get Access page before checkout.

Under the current Founding Access offer, an eligible member may earn VIP Lifetime access by submitting at least one approved qualifying property listing or Travel Request within the applicable access period.

Review the current membership terms because offers and qualification requirements may change as the community grows.

Available membership options may allow members to upgrade or purchase a different level of access. Current plans, benefits and pricing are displayed on the Get Access page.

No. Purchasing a membership and completing identity verification are separate steps.

Members must satisfy the applicable verification requirements before receiving access to protected listings, Travel Requests and other verified-member features.

Yes. RV travelers may use Travel Requests to look for lifestyle-friendly overnight parking, campground recommendations, hookups or other appropriate accommodations.

Availability depends on participating hosts, property size, local regulations and the specific needs of the RV.

A qualified host may be able to offer driveway parking, acreage, a campsite or another suitable RV space when legally permitted.

The listing should explain maximum vehicle length, access, surface type, turning space, electrical service, water, sewer availability and any restrictions.

Boondocking generally means camping without standard utility hookups. It may also be called dry camping.

Travelers should confirm whether electricity, water, sewer, restroom access or trash disposal is available before arriving.

Yes. Include your RV type, total length, arrival dates and required electrical service, such as 30-amp or 50-amp power.

Also identify whether you need water, sewer, generator permission, tow-vehicle parking or room for slides and awnings.

Yes. A Travel Request may be used to seek a one-night stop along a longer route. Clearly state that the request is for an overnight RV stay rather than a conventional bedroom or vacation rental.

“The lifestyle” is a broad term commonly used for consensual non-monogamous social and intimate activities involving adults, including swinging.

People use the term differently, so never assume someone shares particular interests solely because they identify as lifestyle-friendly.

LS is a common abbreviation for “lifestyle.” It may appear in profiles, travel discussions, events and phrases such as “LS-friendly.”

Lifestyle-friendly describes a person, business, accommodation or destination that is accepting and respectful of consensual adult lifestyle participants.

It does not automatically mean that the person or property participates in every aspect of the lifestyle.

A meet and greet, often abbreviated as M&G, is an initial social meeting intended to help people become acquainted without assuming that anything further will occur.

Many couples prefer meeting for drinks, dinner or conversation before making additional plans.

Compersion generally describes happiness or positive feelings experienced when a partner enjoys a meaningful or pleasurable connection with someone else.

People experience and define compersion differently. Honest communication remains more important than any label.

A lifestyle takeover is an organized gathering in which a hotel, resort, cruise, campground or other venue hosts a concentrated group of lifestyle attendees.

Rules, access requirements, dress expectations and activity areas vary by event.

Clothing-optional means guests may choose whether to wear clothing in a designated area. It does not mean nudity is mandatory or that intimate activity is allowed.

Always follow the property’s rules concerning photography, conduct and designated areas.

Discretion means respecting the privacy of other members. This includes not sharing names, photographs, addresses, profile information or details about a stay without permission.

Hosts and travelers should discuss photography and social media expectations before meeting.

No. Verification confirms limited identity information; it cannot guarantee a person’s behavior, intentions or compatibility.

Communicate before meeting, trust your judgment, protect private information and leave any situation that makes you uncomfortable.

Review the host’s profile and listing, communicate clearly, confirm accommodation details and share your itinerary with a trusted person when appropriate.

Maintain independent transportation when possible, protect important documents and do not allow social pressure to override your boundaries.

Review the traveler’s verified profile, discuss the complete guest list, establish house rules and secure private areas or valuables.

Hosts should also understand applicable insurance, occupancy, licensing, tax and association requirements.

Absolutely not. Booking accommodations never provides consent for social, romantic or intimate interaction.

Consent must be voluntary, informed, specific, mutual and ongoing. It may be withdrawn at any time.

End the conversation or interaction, protect your immediate safety and document relevant communication when appropriate.

Report serious concerns to SwingHavenBnB. Emergencies, threats or suspected crimes should be reported to the appropriate local authorities.

Many members find that an initial public meeting for drinks, dinner or conversation provides a comfortable opportunity to assess communication and compatibility.

Whether that is practical depends on the travel circumstances, but no one should feel pressured to enter a private setting before feeling comfortable.